My husband and I went to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina last week.  We are pictured here with our grandchildren on the morning that we are getting ready to leave.  Every morning, I got up early so that I could enjoy the sunrise over the ocean.  The sunrise photo was taken by my talented daughter Hope.  I am so thankful for this trip and how God worked everything out.  When we got there, I asked to be put in a room on my daughter’s floor so we could optimize the time with our family.  The nice desk clerk at the resort not only accommodated that request, but she also gave us an ocean view room right next door to our daughter and her family.  And we only paid $1.00 more than our original reservation of “restricted view.”  So, that was a real blessing. Then, every night except one, we went out to dinner, using the gift cards that my children and husband had gifted me for my birthday.  So, great food and really low cost to us!  God is so good!  He worked out every detail of that trip, from beginning to end.  I am so thankful for the beauty of the beach, the time with my family, and the Caravelle Resort that made our stay so enjoyable.

I could have been fearful all week about the children going in the water or the allergies that I have to things like sand or my husband’s foot that he hurt just before we left on the trip.  But I decided to trust God with the big things and the small things.  God is the center of my life, so I was able to relax and enjoy my holiday.  The children swim like fish, so I was happy to see how well they took care of each other in the ocean and at the pools.  My husband’s foot healed enough that by Thursday he was able to go down to the beach for a little while.  And although I got a rash from the sand, it wasn’t life-threatening or anything and now that I am home, it has almost disappareared.

This week I am home and facing the threat of a hurricane headed for the coast near us.  Each time I hear the word “hurricane” I cringe because shortly after we had moved to Virginia, there was a hurricane that changed to a tropical storm and that wreaked havoc in our area.  We had no electricity for almost two weeks (eleven days, to be exact).  We stayed with my sister for three days and then she said we couldn’t stay any longer.  (Don’t ask; it’s just how she is.). Then, because I have trouble breathing without air conditioning, we had to stay in a cheap motel for a week (as long as we could afford it).  We went home for several days of darkness, gasping for breath and scrambling to find something that we could eat that didn’t require cooking or refrigeration.  Fortunately, at that time, I had not had a stoke yet, so I could eat canned things like pork and beans and packages of crackers without fear of the high sodium levels.  Anyway, I hear the word “hurricane” and I start praying hard for God to spare us.  This morning, my prayer was for God to turn the storm away.  He is able!  But even if He doesn’t, He is also able to sustain me through it.  That is what trust looks like.  You trust God before the storm, in the middle of the storm, and when you are picking up the pieces after the storm.    God is good…all the time!  I hope that He is part of your life and that you, too, can hold on to this comforting truth.

 

Many years ago, when I was a very young lady of 21 years, I heard the story of Jesus in a way that I had never heard it before.  I read the book of John in the Holy Bible and believing that Jesus died for my sins, I began my journey.  Since then, my husband and I have attended over fifteen different churches.  Although the pastors were different, God’s Word remained the same.  One of the truths that I came to believe and rely on is the fact that I have been washed by Jesus’s blood; my sins are no longer remembered by God, and Jesus has written my name in the Lamb’s Book of Life.  Jesus’s blood flowed red, and my garment of praise is a white robe.  There is more to this story, a story that continues daily.  Every day that I get up, I must remind myself that I have been made new.  The old life is gone; the sins are gone; the feelings of inadequacy and self-hatred are gone.  In their place is a love that only God can give, a love that makes me acceptable in the sight of the King of Glory.  That daily reminder is why I can face each new day with a new determination to serve the King who set me free.  You have to serve someone.  Why not serve God who can forgive your sins, wash you clean and make you a new person from the inside out?  He is worthy!

A note to my loyal readers:  This will be my last post for about a week as I will be spending some quality time with my beloved grandchidren and daughter and son-in law.  God is good!  Remember that and I hope to see you visiting my page again when I return.  Blessings and prayers for peace and love and joy.  

This wonderful book will be available at all of your favorite booksellers on September 18th, but you can pre-order it now and get LOTS of freebies!  

This is a book of encouragement and love for all of the working mothers who strive so hard and never seem to have enough time for themselves.  Jessica Turner encourages moms to take time out, to renew their strength and their spirits.  She does so with practical tips that can be adapted to whatever job and lifestyle you are living.  This book is for single moms, married moms, moms with one child and moms with six or more children.  Jessica Turner touches the heart of being a mother and encourages mothers everywhere to use that heart to make sure that they take care of themselves so that they can take care of others.  Each chapter ends with reflective questions so that the book is more than a book to be read and then forgotten.  It is a book that is to be used as a tool to improve the lives of working mothers everywhere.  

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I’ve had an interesting and challenging few days, with little time to do anything but care for others.  Our autistic granddaughter has been here for two weeks, just going back home today.  Her departure was bittersweet since I needed a break from caring for her, but wee had really bonded this time and I cried when she had to leave.  She is a real sweetheart, but she does require a lot of time and attention.  It was my pleasure to take care of her; she has an honest love for anyone whom she trusts to care for her.  She even says now without prompting, “Love you!”

Yesterday, we ended up at the local doctor’s office because my husband had slipped and hurt his foot.  Who in the world ever heard of a torn arch?  I spent an hour after we left the office trying to find a pharmacy that sold a compression brace which is whaat the doctor said he needed to wear.  No such luck!  So, I called the doctor’s office back and asked for an alternative.  Unbelievably, he could wear the ankle boot support that was at the first pharmacy we went to.  Thirty some dollars later, he was set.  The really stressful part was that we have a planned trip and he is our driver.  We are hoping to still be able to go since it is our trip to see grandchildren.  We will see about that one.

Finally, I got a notification from Facebook that I was hacked.  Aaarrrrggg!  So, after changing all of my account settings online, I am just now getting around to writing a post.  You will notice, I think, that my settings on WordPress have changed so that I have to approve you.  I’m sorry for the inconvenience, but I don’t know where the hacking came from, so I’m suspicious of all of my online accounts.  Goodness!  It’s a sad world that we live in, isn’t it?  I’m glad that I can totally trust God to take care of details and be my refuge and strength when I am just tired of it all.  That’s where I am now, just happy to run into the arms of God and feel His love and support through it all.  I hope you have found that comfort, too.

I asked my husband for a hummingbird feeder for my birthday, and he pleased me with a beautiful one right outside the window of the chair in which I spend so much time.  It is late in the season for hummingbirds to appear, so not one has come by yet.  But it is still there, reaching out to them.  I think the nectar that is in the feeder must have a scent that attracts them, and I am hopeful that next year when we put it up early in the spring, many hummingbirds will find it and be blessed with that nectar that nourishes them.

Did you know that we all give off a certain scent that either attracts or repels others?  I am not referring to the odor we have when we haven’t showered yet or when we forget to put on deodorant.  I am talking about the smell that we have because we are the Lord’s children and have spent time in His presence.  People should be able to tell that you are a Christian because you give off a certain smell…the smell of serenity, of thankfulness, of praise, and of the hope of eternal life.  Sounds weird, right?  But that is what the Bible says.

We are a pleasing aroma to God.  If you recall, there are Scriptures in the Old Testament in which sacrifices were made, and God called them a pleasing aroma.

In the New Testament, God calls us to present ourselves as a living sacrifice.  Thus we are a pleasing aroma to Him.

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If we are a living sacrifice, then we give off a pleasing aroma to God.  Don’t you think that those around us should be aware of that scent?  There should be something so different about us that, like the hummingbird feeder attracts hummingbirds, we will attract other people to us.  And what do we do when they get there?  We share Jesus with them, of course!  Like me, you are probably saying, “No way! I can’t do that!”  Well, you aren’t alone in your quest to be a pleasant smell, attract others and share Jesus with them.  God has called you and He equips you.

Through the sacrifice of Jesus, we become a living sacrifice, a pleasing aroma to God.  We attract others and all of our confidence to share this new life comes from God.  Awesome, huh?  In my devotional this morning, Nicki Gumbel said that we don’t need self-confidence to share; we already have God-confdence.  So, go out and share your smell with others who need the Lord in their lives.  Plant seeds.  Attract others to your pleasing aroma just by being the person God sent you into the world to be.  Please Him and just see what God can do through you!  I’m picturing fields of flowers now.  What a cool visual image of a pleasing aroma!  I’m one of those flowers and so are you.   Be a pleasant smell, for God and for others.

I am using Sarah’s writing prompt to launch my blog today.  Her whole prompt is “Close your eyes and imagine the kind of world you would like to see.  What is it like?”  I just shortened it for my title, but the idea is all hers.

I want to see a world in which life is valued, all life.  I am one of those radical pro-lifers.  I always vote for the candidate who is pro-life and if there is no such candidate in the race, I don’t vote.  You see, I believe that life starts at conception.  No, I am not from a religion who taught that as a truth that had to be accepted or you couldn’t join the church.  I came to this conclusion all on my own because I have read God’s Word and believe that it means exactly what it says.

I believe that God is the Creator of all life, and we can neither create it nor destroy it and be following His Word.  If God told the prophet Jeremiah that He knew Him before He formed him in the womb, then to me that means He also knew me.  He knew you, your children, your grandchildren…all the people on earth.  God causes that sperm to meet that egg and create a new human.  He is involved in the conception of all mankind.

For those of you who cry out:  “But it is the mother’s choice.  It’s her body, after all!”  No, wrong!  Your body belongs to the Creator who created it. And it is my belief that the choice was made when the mother decided to have a sexual relationship with someone and get pregnant.  “Wait,” you say.  “What about rape and incest and other horrible sex crimes that end in a pregnancy?”  Again, my reply is that God created and it is not up to us to decide to kill because of the way the pregnancy happened.  There are so many people who want to adopt children.  Yes, it would be difficult, heart-wrenching and painful to carry a baby to term if your body has been violated, but that innocent baby inside you did not choose to be there.  Your violation was the result of the sin in the world, and those who would abort that child are compounding the sin.  That’s just my take…abortion is murder, period.  It seems strange to me that if you kill a child outside of the womb, it it murder.  But if you kill a child forming in the womb, it is not.  I know that Roe v. Wade legalized abortion, but I don’t think for one minute that God was a part of that decision.  This issue is a hot-button topic and I know it.  I have one child who agrees with me and two who do not.  That doesn’t change my opinion, nor the expectations of a loving God who wants what is best for us always. That being said, if you are one who has had an abortion, you can be forgiven, just as God forgives other sins.  I understand from much reading that women who have had an abortion suffer great guilt for a long time afterwards, even perhaps as long as they live.  Guilt is not from God, so you should not accept that burden.  Give it to Jesus, along with all of the burdens you carry, and let Him show you His free love and forgiveness.

When I was a young mother and living in South Carolina, I had a friend whose daughter got pregnant at the age of fifteen.  I was Bobbi’s teacher and her confidante, so she told me first about her pregnancy and her plan to have an abortion so her parents would not find out.  I counseled her about the worth of the innocent child and how much God loved her and this new life.  She was terrified to go to her parents and admit her sin, but I went with her and we talked to them together.  They promised to support her and encouraged her to keep the baby.  The father ran out of the picture as soon as he found out she was pregnant.  So Bobbi was on her own, except for the support of her parents and me.  She gave birth about seven months later.  That is the only birth room in which I was on the end of the table watching the birth instead of pushing out a new baby myself.  What a blessing!  Louis was born, healthy and wide-eyed, ready to take on the world.  That was about fifty years ago.  I have moved many times since then, but I have stayed in touch with Bobbi and know that Louis serves in the U.S. Army and has been to Afghanistan numerous times.  He is married and has children of his own.  So, a legacy continues because of a young girl who made the choice for life.

I am unapologetically pro-life.  That is the world that I want to see…one in which all life is precious, all life is valued, from the very young to the very old.  We need to get God’s perspective on life.  And that is my two cents.  I hope that it made you think and consider the wonder of life!

This was a heart-wrenching true story of what a family goes through when there is an unexpected illness.  Allison and her husband were on the way to their baby-moon, only thirty years old, when Dave suffered a traumatic stroke.  As a stroke survivor myself, I could really relate to many of the details about Dave’s rehabilitation and his basically coming back from the dead.  My heart ached for Allison, six months pregnant and dealing with one problem after another with Dave’s slow recovery.  Sometimes Dave seemed to take one step forward and two steps backwards.  A brilliant young man on the cusp of becoming an orthopedic surgeon required all kinds of treatments and therapy after he awoke from his coma.  Ms. Pataki treats Dave’s stroke with a compassion and tenderness that can only come with true love.  That’s what this really ended up being, a love story of a couple attempting to overcome overwhelming odds.  I thoroughly enjoyed this book, although non-fiction is not usually my book of choice.

Disclaimer:  I borrowed a copy of this book from my local library on my Overdrive App.  The opinions expressed are my own.  I was not required to provide a positive review.  I am disclosing this in accordance with CFR 16, Part 255 “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

 

As we were loading the car yesterday to travel to church, I went by my rose bush and I was delighted at what I saw.

I saw dew on my roses!  Such a beautiful sight!  Why?  Because they reminded me of an old hymn that I used to sing long ago just after I became a Christian.  I was alone a lot because my husband was deployed, so I spent a lot of time listening to albums.  We even had a state of the art (at the time) stereo from Radio Shack.  One of my favorite hymns was by Jimmy Swaggert. I know, I know…he was disgraced and needed to repent.  Well, don’t we all?  Anyway, I listened to his album frequently, and I learned this one song by heart, singing it when I was driving in the car, cleaning the house or taking care of the children.  I couldn’t find the Jimmy Swaggert version, but I hope these words will minister to you as they have for me for over four decades.

Yesterday, after church service, we went to the nursing home and sang some old favorites there.  One of my other favorites that I used to sing all the time was Lee Castro’s “Because He Lives.”  When I was feeling really alone and like I just could not take another nine months without a spouse, this is the song that God sent to me to renew my soul, to encourage me.  Please let it encourage you, too.

It’s a special time for me to see these elderly people who love the Lord so much that they come to a small church service to worship the Lord with us.  So many of them were singing along with the chorus on this one.  Is this a song that you are familiar with?  I know…it’s old, but then, so I am, and I love the old hymns that remind me of how much Jesus loves me and wants to spend time with me.  I hope that you spend some time today just basking in the Savior’s love.  Let Him touch you wherever you hurt and whisper to you that He cares what you are going through.  He did that for me over forty years ago, and He still speaks to me today.  He is the same:  yesterday, today and forever.   He wants you and me to know that He does not change and He loves us.

This is Sarah’s writing prompt for the day, so I want to remember to give her credit.  I neglected to do so when I wrote the other day about my favorite toy.  Anyway, I don’t like to call it a ritual, but I enjoy teaching Sunday school every Sunday.  I have been teaching at my church for almost two decades, so I have had the privilege of watching some of my students grow up into young adults and still be attending the church.  I started teaching grades 5-6.  Then, the church lost members, so I taught a combined class of grades K-6.  For the last year, I have been teaching grades 6-8.  So, I am flexible about my teaching, but no matter what group I am engaged with, I enjoy seeing their curiosity.  I am really excited about my current curriculum.  I am teaching from Anwers in Genesis, a set of studies that helps students to answer their own questions as well as the questions of others who attack their faith.  As I prepare today for tomorrow’s lesson, I know that I will find myself learning and exploring new things from God’s Word.  It’s exciting to me to let the children know that evolution is a THEORY, not an absolute truth of science.  It’s exciting to explore the real dimensions of Noah’s ark and how it was even possible to fit all those animals on board. Although many teach that this is a fictional story in the Bible, I teach that everything in the Bible is real and true.  If you really want to explore the Bible, I can highly recommend Answers in Genesis.  Their motto is “believing it, defending it, proclaiming it.”  If you need to defend your faith, I have found no study that is more sound and Biblically based than this one.  So, to summarize, my favorite ritual is teaching Sunday School…and each week I learn more about myself, my faith and that of my students.  I hope that you will share your Sunday “ritual” and I hope it has something to do with worshipping our Creator on a day set aside for Him.

Merci Suarez is a delightful book for middle school students that deals with the changes and challenges of being a tween.  Merci and her brother Roli are scholarship students at a posh private school in Florida, a situation that includes its own challenges, including extra community service hours.  The author has done an outstanding job of depicting life in middle school and in a multi-generational family.  Merci has to try to fit in, has her first crush, and has to deal with her beloved grandfather’s health issues.  Other themes that the author dos a good job of addressing are the idea of rich versus poor and how important family is.   Edna Santos is the bully in the novel and is portrayed realistically, as are the teachers in the book who touch Merci’s life.  The Spanish language is used throughout the book, in a descriptive and natural conversational style.  Merci is a likable young lady with a lot of challenges and a message for other tweens during puberty and  facing the regular problems in middle school.

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Disclosure of Material Connection:  I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher and from Netgalley.  I was not required to write a positive review.  The opinions that are expressed are my own.  I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 “Guides Concerning the Use off Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”